“The reason why woman are partially responsible for men’s sexual desire is because it’s wrong to cause others to sin. And since sexual desire is a sin if not felt toward ones spouse, you’re causing others to sin. Ever since the fall of Adam and Eve man has been born into sin. We are slaves to sin. At least until born again through Christ but that’s another topic. Our fleshly nature is going to tell us to do things and tempt us to do what goes against God. If you don’t believe in God, which is stupid in itself, then I can see where you’re coming from. But since God exists, and we as humans are full of sin, we need to help each other out of sin, not fall into it. We as humans cannot physically control our desires. We can fight the temptations not to act on those desires, but our sinful nature will always exist. And it’s a sin to even have those desires. The reason she’s not telling men to dress differently is because men don’t dress revealingly. Women aren’t as visually attracted to men as much as men are to women. If they were I could guarantee you it’d be in style for men to wear spandex. If all guys wore spandex what do you think girls would be looking about and thinking about? It’s the same things girls are doing now a days with their entire bodies. And you justify it because it’s a modern time? 100 years ago it was still a modern time but women didn’t dress like that. It’s because a few girls decided to dress revealingly and other girls took note of the attention they got and wanted the same attention. Most women objectify themselves because they want attention. Attention itself isn’t a bad thing but the way that most girls are going about it is wrong. You can deny it all you want but girls don’t show cleavage or wear short shorts without thinking of the reaction of the opposite sex. I’m a guy and yeah, we’re visual. We’re stupid and mostly pay attention to looks, which makes dressing immodestly the easy way out. I’m sorry that you think you have to dress like that to get our attention but trust me the only attention you’re really getting isn’t worth it. This isn’t saying that men aren’t at fault; of course we’re at fault but help us out. These ideas and morals are based off of Christianity. If you don’t agree with Christianity then it wouldn’t make any sense to agree with what we’re saying here and we should be discussing religion, not dressing modestly. I haven’t read all the reblogs but so far people that are attacking her originally are saying that they wear revealing clothes because it’s comfortable; there were mentions of rape; people arguing about opinions which doesn’t make much sense; some Jesus jokes and other religion stuff; is there anything else you guys wanna say that I can address? My intentions aren’t to argue endlessly for the sake of pride but to attempt to instill some knowledge for those who seem to be lacking.”
This is what my boyfriend thinks.